I bought this book because I'd read several recommendations for it in my favorite internet forum. No, my relationship is not in a shape where I would have to read this kind of book, but reading it can't do any harm either. And I've read this book with great interest. While roughly every other book on relationships says you have to work together to solve problems, Susan Page takes a completely different approach saying that a relationship is a dance, and when you change your own behavior, the other's will follow accordingly. I feel there's a lot of truth in this approach, and having read this book I think I'll be more aware of this in my own relationship.

The book contains about 30 experiments, as the author has it, which are designed to encourage you trying one approach/technique or another. I guess I will try several of these experiments, and on the other hand I know a couple of people to give this book to, as it really opens your eyes as you read along.