Brothel Mustang Ranch & Its Women
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As part of my never ending battle with Mt. TBR I am trying to register all of my books in order to see how long they visit me on my shelf & where I got them. This was picked up last summer at a thrift store as it just looked interesting, somehow it missed being registered : )
"Second hand books are wild books, homeless books; they have come together in vast flocks of variegated feather, and have a charm which the domesticated volumes of the library lack." --Virginia Woolf
Alexa Albert's exploration of Nevada's infamous cathouses began as a public-health study into the safe-sex practices of these legal working girls and the effectiveness of condom requirements in preventing sexually transmitted diseases. It took her three years to gain access to the brothels, and when her project was eventually approved by the head of the Nevada Brothel Association, she was surprised to be invited to stay at Mustang Ranch, among the women of the brothel, for the duration of her research.
The book is written in what I felt is a very non-judgemental way from a woman who was actually able to live at the ranch and interact with these women. She talked to them observed them to understand how and why they choose this as their lives. The confidence and yet insecurities that are shown are quite interesting. It is a powerful read regardless of what side you choose to the idea of sex for pay being right or not. In no way does this book glorify or make pretty the jobs that these women do, now does it look down upon them for it. I would reccomend this read and might even make a ring of it...?
and so I am, but as a ray ( my house is overflowing with books and I don't need to hold on to any!!!)
the following people have expressed interest. will work out a shipping order when I get the complete list settled!
GoryDetails from NH-US shipping
goddess-of-fire from MS-US shipping
flossie771 from GA-US shipping
seamonkeyoftvch from CA-US preferred
stacers1973 from OR-US or Canada
Crossing-Guard from Canada-shipping within Canada or US
megami-no-ushi from Canada
kobie03 from Canada- INTL shipping
Vekiki from UK-prefers within UK
PussInBoots from UK- prefers EU shipping ****asked to be skipped****
penelopewanders from Switzerland- prefers within Switz.
marko167 from Switzerland-INTL ok
icila from France- INTL ok
Jujuks from Portugal- prefers EU shipping
another bookcrosser has a stalled ring with this book so will be adding their remaining people to my list!
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AgnesXNitt from UK (Europe preferred)
frangelle from UK (Europe preferred)
snufkin81 from South Africa (international)
christoffel from Netherlands (international)
okyrhoe from Greece (international)
Supertalya from APO, USA (international)
gnissorckoob from Florida, USA (US only)
BobnJen from South Carolina, USA (US Only)
valerief from New York, USA (International)
How this bookray works:
* Someone will PM you for your address, PM them back and provide your address
* When you receive the book, please make a journal entry letting everyone know that you received it
* Put the book at the top of your TBR pile (under other rings/rays that arrived first)
* Read the book (take your time and enjoy the book, don't feel rushed to finish it but try to pass it on within a month - others are waiting!)
* When the end is in sight, check the book's journal and PM the next person to get their address
* Finish the book, make another journal entry and let everyone know what you thought of the book then send the book to the next person on the list (feel free to use the cheapest shipping method available & delivery confirmation is your choice), make release notes or journal entry to let everyone know that it's in the mail
* END OF THE RAY, The last person on the ray~ it would be great if you try and continue the ray, perhaps a RABCK - look at wish lists, or release it into the wild or pass along to a friend to enjoy!
off on it's journey, I do hope that it is as interesting a book for you as it was for me.
"A book is a mysterious object, I said, and once it floats out into the world, anything can happen. All kinds of mischief can be caused, and there's not a damned thing you can do about it. For better or worse, it's completely out of your control."
Paul Auster
Some of the things that surprised me: the restrictions placed on the workers and customers of the Mustang Ranch. In addition to the common-sense rules about inspecting customers for possible STDs, the required use of condoms, etc., there were others that I hadn't expected at all: a "no kissing" rule, for one thing. [While I can easily see that a sex worker might not want to kiss a client - in some ways, that can be a more intimate act than the ones that were allowed! - it just seemed strange that it would be actually against the rules.] And that the workers were required to stay on the premises at all times during their stints at the ranch - though this didn't seem quite so bad when I understood that most of them did not stay there for more than a few weeks at a time. [Many of the more draconian rules were in place to protect the staff, but some were there to protect the profits, to help ensure that the women weren't taking advantage of the local clientele to set up dates of their own off-site. I suppose those were logical precautions too, but it still startled me a bit.]
The description of the women's rooms and the supplies they needed - a fairly short passage early in the book - brought home the clinical details of this kind of work; anyone who had any idea of there being any romance involved in prostitution (any "Pretty Woman" fans out there? {wry grin}) should read that section.
But to balance that, there are descriptions of customers who come to the ranch for company more than anything else, including one AIDS patient who didn't even ask for sex, just to have someone who wouldn't pull away from him...
The ping-pong effect continued throughout the book. The author would describe women who were prostituting themselves to support their children or their aging parents - and others who were supporting a man who was, effectively, their pimp. And she'd talk about the rivalries and cliques among the women, including some fairly nasty attempts to sabotage newcomers or steal clients - followed by passages in which all the workers came together to support one of their own in times of trouble.
My own views on prostitution haven't changed much based on this book; that is, I've always figured that adults should be able to - with informed consent - do pretty much whatever they wanted with each other, including choosing to buy or sell sex. However, it seems very, very difficult for people to engage in the sex-for-sale business without running into prejudice, intolerance, and/or guilt - never mind the unrealistic expectations of others. Clients who fell in love with hookers (or thought they had) never realized that the women were only doing their jobs, pretending to be the perfect mate, perfectly satisfied by whatever the men did with them. Prostitutes who fell in love with clients (or thought they had) would believe them when they said that their work wouldn't be an issue - right up 'til the moment when their lovers would get in an argument with them and throw "you're a whore!" in their faces. While some of the women described here did seem to have achieved a satisfactory balance in their lives, taking pride in their work but able to draw clear lines between work and personal lives, most of them had some trouble there. [To be fair, lots of people have trouble drawing such lines; the problems with romances at the office are rife!]
One of the most surprising tidbits in the book: the chapter about the people who were trying to have prostitution made illegal included a description of a guy whose tactics ranged from the dippy to the ludicrous; at one point he tried to get a license to open a gay brothel, in hopes that it would trigger a homophobic reaction that would result in all brothels being made illegal. [Would have served him right if the state had simply let him open one.] And later on there was a chapter about other brothel owners in the state - including one couple who described themselves as devout Christians, who not only ran a brothel but featured the wife as one of the available women. Goes to show you never can tell, eh?
By the end of the book, the ranch was shut down due to allegations of criminal activity on the part of its absentee owner. However, I see from the ever-helpful Google that it was reopened. Farther than that I did not choose to Google!
Not unexpected connections: a few of the situations and individuals described here reminded me of "Mother Mucca" from Maupin's More Tales of the City. And when the book described the closing of the Mustang Ranch, I couldn't help hearing "Hard Candy Christmas" from Best Little Whorehouse in Texas in my head!
Very unexpected connection: the chapter about the brothel-clients' web site and resulting CyberWhoreMonger Convention painted such a clear picture of an internet community forged on a common interest that many people would consider odd reminded me a LOT of the wonderful book Will the Vampire People Please Leave the Lobby, and while it's a bit offputting to think of it this way, of BookCrossing.com as well!
Glad I read this one; thanks for sharing it, princess-peapod!
The book's on its way to Goddess-of-Fire in Missouri, to continue the book ring. Hope you enjoy it!
Thanks!
I apologize for having this book so long, I accidentally left it up at my parents' house one weekend and then the end of the semester has been crazy.
I'll ship it out to flossie771 as soon as possible, Thanks!
Thanks so much for including me.
I mailed this book to the next reader today.
I'll start reading it so I can pass it along before I have surgery on the 19th.
And the good, safer, somewhat supportive atmosphere.
And the sad, when the place was shut down.. wasn't necessarily better for the women and many other employees.
This is far better than puff pieces like Oprah Skypeing into the brothel (I think the Chicken Ranch) and making all nice and good times with one prostitute, or the sensational.
Thanks much for sharing this!
Sending this on to the next on the list, Stacers1973. Plan to do this today.
And Flossie, thanks so much for using that wonderful reusable Bookcrossing envelope, so convenient and saves another envelope (of course it would also be re-used but this is so much nicer.)
Thanks for sending it on, will get to it shortly.
My husband raised his eyebrows when he saw me reading this, not sure what that reaction was about. (Other than the sterotypical attitude towards prostitution illustrated throughout the book.) Anyway, thanks for sharing princess-peapod and to each of you for passing it on :) Happy bookcrossing!
Mailed this out yesterday (the 22nd/June) before my afternoon went to heck in a handbasket, I forgot to make the release notes. It is on it's way to Canada!
I will get the next person's email and get this in the mail as soon as I can.
I'm still torn on the subject but this book has certainly helped put shape to what aspects I can support and which ones I can't. Thanks for the opportunity to read this!
Released 14 yrs ago (7/19/2009 UTC) at in the mail, -- By post or by hand/ in person -- Canada
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Off to the post office to mail this to the next person on the list!
I"ll have it in the mail tomorrow.
Released 14 yrs ago (8/12/2009 UTC) at Lewins Cove, Newfoundland and Labrador Canada
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mailed to vekiki, next participant.
Released 14 yrs ago (10/7/2009 UTC) at -- Controlled Release, -- By post or by hand/ in person -- United Kingdom
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this was really fasinating - and very well written , going into good detail without ever getting bogged down. I really really enjoyed this.
Posted onto the next in line for this bookring
Released 14 yrs ago (11/6/2009 UTC) at ☑ 'Controlled Release' > Country > Province > City, .---controlled release---. Switzerland
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Bit of an adventure for this one. I didn't get the address before leaving for Paris and didn't want to take a book to France that I could send domestically. Once in Paris I got the address - no longer Switzerland but Barcelona, but meanwhile the book, almost finished, was here in Switzerland. I finished it when I got back this week, and have now finally been able to post it on. Sorry it took so long.
I found the book very interesting - the ambivalence and ambiguity of the author's position comes through - she doesn't approve but does... It is certainly a stark and apparently realistic documentation of this profession. I was unaware of the situation in Nevada, so found it informative. Thanks so much for making this book available.
thanks for sharing and providing such food for thought.
Released 14 yrs ago (1/19/2010 UTC) at Bookring, A Bookring -- Controlled Releases
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I kept this back as I didn't want it caught up in the Christmas rush.
So, now that I judge it is safe to go, off it flies to the home of LeJam.
Bon voyage!
The book is very interesting. I am sad to know that the women got the job to give money to the man they love whatever the name.
Pming Jujuks.
It was very interesting getting to know some facts about the brothels' history.
I'll send this book out as soon as I have the next participant's address.
Released 13 yrs ago (7/29/2010 UTC) at Godmanchester, Cambridgeshire United Kingdom
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Thank you for organising this ring Princess-Peapod, and thanks to JuJuks for posting onto me from Portugal.
I found that this book was interesting, fascinating and refreshingly open from the author's POV. Her initial request to carry out a health survey turned into a wide ranging and horizon expanding experience, as she ended up living for a short time in the Mustang Ranch brothel amongst the working girls and the rest of the brothel staff. I was intrigued by the set up - I mean, I didn't even think about cleaning staff, a washerlady, bar staff, a parlour maid (there to make sure the customer knows the rules of the house and calls the girls for 'line up'), drivers and business people who 'service' the needs of the Brothel - apparently they had their own Avon lady!!! And a man who sold his clothes shop in Las Vegas to buy and refit a bus as a travelling shop to constantly tour round the brothels to sell the girls their outfits. Amazing.
The author wasn't welcomed by every employee of the establishment, but it would seem most of the girls there befriended her to a certain degree. So much so that she was asked to 'participate' in one girl's 'date' as a 'watcher'. My goodness, that was an eye-opener. And in more ways than one!
Facts like the girls still having pimps/controllers outside of the brothel was news to me, I didn't think that would be neccessary but I was wrong there. The stories of how many of the women ended up working at the Mustang as predictable but no less sad or shocking. Several stories made me very angry - one girl was there because her own *mother* won't let her come home unless she makes so much money!!
The internet, of course, has widened the industries legal and illegal customer base, and the chapter on the website community was well explained too.
Overall, the book was a run of revelations for me. From the very opening chapter I was shocked, intrigued, saddened, fascinated and amazed in turn.
I'm still not sure prostitution is a good thing, but am even more sure that if the business should exist, surely its safer for the people who work in it to work in clean, regulated environments rather than risking life and limb even more so by walking the streets?
I have PM'd the next reader and await their address to send this book onwards.
Apologies for hanging onto this one so long.
Thanks, AgnesXNitt, for sending it!
Update 8 Jan 2011: Apologies for keeping this so long! I've had quite a backlog of rings, but I'm reading this one now and hope to have it finished in a week or two. Sorry!
This is a truly fascinating book and I'm very glad to have read it. I have rather firm ideas about prostitution and this book didn't really change those, but it was good to have a deeper insight into the lives of these women. An important point however, is that the situation would obviously be very different for "street walkers", women who don't work from a brothel and don't have the security and medical support that these women have.
Thanks so much for giving me the opportunity to read this!
I have already PMed Christoffel for her address and will send this on once she replies.
Update 6 Feb 2011: I have PMed Christoffel twice with no response, so I have now PMed okyrhoe.
Released 13 yrs ago (2/12/2011 UTC) at Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa
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The book arrived on Thursday and I have already started reading.
EDIT March 2:
Contacted Supertalya and she has asked to be skipped. PM'ed gnissorckoob now for their address.
EDIT March 3: gnissorckoob has asked to be skipped as well. PM'ing the next person on the list.
EDIT March 8: BobnJen is not responding, and judging by the "recent activity" info & last forum post, they don't appear to be active on BC. Contacting the next person on the list.
Although the legalized brothels offer a work environment for women in the sex trade that is vastly preferable to any other presently-existing option, there is still vast room for improvement.
The women don't seem to be suffering in any major way, and yet it's obvious that there exists a substantial unregulated gray area within the owner-management-employee relationship permitting management & owners to take (monetary) advantage of the women, if they so wish. The author repeatedly illustrates how "management didn't acutally respect women's status as independent contractors," thereby allowing for various little and not-so-little ways in which management and third parties (eg. taxi cab drivers) whittle away at the women's profit margins.
I wonder if today the women in the industry have come together into some form of trade association so that they too can lobby & influence county & state officials to legislate for the prostitutes, not only for the brothel owners's behalf.
Is it too much to ask for a prostitute-owned & operated establishment, where pro-prostitute rules and regulations could be applied, and where the prostitutes have full autonomy, not the pseudo independent contractor status that exists (or existed at the time of the writing of this book)?
Incidentally, I watched the HBO series on the Nevada brothel industry a couple of years ago before reading this book. I recall being uncomfortable about the overly-cheerful way things were presented in the series (featuring the Moonlite Bunny Ranch run by Dennis Hof, who appears at the end of A. Albert's book), and now I know my gut feelings were right.
There's a lot of information the HBO series left out - intentionally or not - and compared to A. Albert's better researched book, it now is obvious the HBO show approximates an infomercial more than anything else.
Released 13 yrs ago (3/31/2011 UTC) at book ring/ray, By Mail/Post/Courier -- Controlled Releases
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Released 12 yrs ago (6/3/2011 UTC) at -- Trains/Train Stations, (See Notes) in New York City, New York USA
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